COUPLES THERAPY
Couples Therapy offers an opportunity to develop a rewarding and loving relationship. With warmth and humor, I actively guide couples through difficult times to deepen relationships and develop secure attachment. Using the evidence-based model Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I support couples to identify their negative cycle, explore its roots, normalize it, and transform it so that each person can reach for the other in a new, more heartfelt way.
Getting angry, defensive, and shutting down are common strategies people use to protect themselves from the pain of disconnection. I create a safe place in which you both feel heard and understood and respond to each other in a new way, allowing intimacy to bloom.
Emotionally Focused Therapy, developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, has been rigorously tested with over twenty five years of research. According to a meta-analysis of the most comprehensive studies 70-73% of couples recover from marital distress and 90% of couples report significant improvement.
Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. “Pooh!” he whispered. “Yes, Piglet?”
“Nothing,” said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw. “I just want to be sure of you.”
A.A. Milne, The House at Pooh Corner
RECOMMENDED READING
Hold Me Tight, Dr. Sue Johnson
Love Sense, Dr. Sue Johnson
An Emotionally Focused Workbook for Couples, Veronica Kallos-Lilly and Jennifer Fitzgerald